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How Your ABA Provider Can Support You During Your Child’s IEP or 504 Meeting
November 3, 2025

Navigating an IEP or 504 Plan meeting can feel overwhelming for any parent. Between understanding educational jargon, reviewing assessments, and advocating for your child’s unique needs, it’s easy to feel unsure of where to start. Your ABA provider (whether a BCBA or BCaBA) can be a valuable ally during this process. They can help you interpret your child’s progress, provide professional insight on behavioral and learning goals, and ensure that the strategies used in therapy are effectively communicated to the school team.

ABA providers can assist in several specific ways:

Reviewing Progress Data: They can compile and summarize data from therapy sessions to show measurable improvements in skills, behaviors, or communication.

Recommending Accommodations or Strategies: They can suggest classroom supports or modifications that align with your child’s current needs and strengths.

Clarifying Interventions: They can help explain behavioral strategies used in therapy so the school team understands how best to support your child.

Preparing Talking Points: They can help you organize questions, concerns, and observations to make your voice at the meeting more clear and effective.

It’s important to remember that ABA providers cannot automatically speak on behalf of your child unless you explicitly authorize them. The IEP or 504 team expects the parent or guardian to be the primary spokesperson. Your provider can attend the meeting, answer questions, and offer professional guidance, but they should respect school policies and ethical boundaries around representation.

Step-by-Step Directions for a Successful IEP or 504 Meeting

  1. Gather Documentation in Advance:
      Bring progress reports from your ABA provider, past IEP/504 plans, assessments, and any notes about your child’s strengths and challenges.
  2. Review Data with Your ABA Provider:
      Meet ahead of time to review therapy progress, behavioral trends, and goals. Identify areas where support at school may need to be adjusted.
  3. Prepare Questions and Talking Points:
      List specific questions about accommodations, classroom supports, or behavioral strategies. Include examples from therapy to illustrate your child’s needs.
  4. Define Roles for the Meeting:
      Clarify if your ABA provider will attend. Decide in advance what topics you want them to address and what you will present yourself.
  5. Engage Actively During the Meeting:
      Listen carefully, ask clarifying questions, and refer to your provider’s data when appropriate. Your provider can provide insight without taking over your role as the parent spokesperson.
  6. Collaborate on Goals and Accommodations:
      Work with the team to set clear, measurable goals for the next term. Ensure accommodations align with your child’s current therapy supports and classroom needs.
  7. Follow Up After the Meeting:
      Review the finalized plan, confirm that action items are clear, and schedule any necessary follow-up with your ABA provider or school staff.

By working together (parent, ABA provider, and school team) you ensure your child’s needs are clearly communicated, their progress is accurately represented, and their supports are tailored for success. Remember, your ABA provider is there to support, not replace, your voice in the process. With preparation, collaboration, and professional insight, you can approach your child’s IEP or 504 meeting with confidence and clarity.

Helpful Resources

Behavior Analyst Certification Board (BACB) – Ethics Codes for Behavior Analysts

Center for Parent Information & Resources – Parent Participation in IEPs

U.S. Department of Education – Guide to the IEP

National Association of Special Education Teachers (NASET) – IEP Components

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